Reprogram Your Mind to Facilitate Leadership Success

You may want to reprogram your mind if you have struggled to achieve new business growth & success.

Science and psychology have proven that our minds control our lives behind the scenes, specifically our subconscious minds. I’ll share some of the latest research into how your ancestral DNA can also play a part in unlocking your unique keys to success.

The power of your subconscious mind determines the following:

  • how much money you make
  • how happy you are
  • how much success you achieve
  • the amount of sales you make
  • what you see as your place in the world

From birth to 6 years of age, mirror neurons pick up all the messages, rules, codes, and agreements about what your life “should” look like from a financial viewpoint.

So, if you heard arguments about money growing up, you may tend to perceive money as a source of conflict and stress.

Not only that, but science reveals how memories may influence our financial success from our ancestors!

According to Hashem Al-Ghaili, a science communicator and video producer with 22 million followers, we might be born with memories of our ancestors imprinted on our DNA.

His research emerges from Harvard and other reputable sources. Our ancestors’ memories may shape our genetic material…carrying trauma and fears, as well as talents, gifts, and resources across generations.

Meaning that you may not be reaching your financial goals based on a dead relative’s negative beliefs about money and success.

Here’s his latest video that has gone viral: Memories Can Pass Between Generations Through DNA

His video reminds me of Eddie, a former client.

Eddie told himself for years that he would never become like his father…drinking and being passed over for promotions. Yet, that’s exactly what happened. Over the years, he found himself doing exactly what he said he wouldn’t: he drank daily, beat himself up, and felt like a failure because he wasn’t going anywhere in his banking career.

He had been to therapy. He had gone through training programs. But he couldn’t seem to have any lasting breakthroughs. While he had symptoms of depression and anxiety, “talking” about it in traditional therapy wasn’t shifting his circumstances.

I understood his dilemma on a personal and professional level. I stopped offering traditional therapy in 1996 because talk therapy wasn’t the answer for me as a client and many clients we served in a busy outpatient mental health clinic.

You can talk until you’re blue in the face, but nothing shifts…or stays shifted… until you gain the cooperation of your subconscious mind and focus it on more resourceful memories.

Reprogram Your Mind By “Borrowing” Brilliance

We become what we think or believe.

Better said: We become what our subconscious minds are programmed to achieve. But like Eddie, how can you reprogram your mind to achieve what you want instead of what you don’t want?

Although it sounds “woo-woo,”…whether you want to sell more services or heal a broken relationship, the protocol is the same: Clear out your limiting beliefs and change your mental program.

This is the process I’ve successfully used to help over 7,000 individuals, sales executives, and business owners, along with helping them tap into their dormant success resources.

Eddie started pre-paving his mind for the deeper work we did together by using the 3 methods I’m going to share in a moment. Deep relaxation is what hypnotherapy is all about…so you can reprogram your mind with ease.

In one session, I learned that he didn’t have any positive “financial success” role models growing up, so I helped him to “borrow the brilliance” he needed from his great grandfather, who, as the story had it was a highly successful businessman.

Within four sessions, Eddie was standing taller, feeling more confident, and talking excitedly about how things were shifting for the positive at work.

He said he felt like a new man…and, by borrowing strengths from his great grandfather, he was a new man! Three months later, he saw significant gains through our work.

Imagine accessing these powerful resources to achieve the level of leadership that makes your life easier.

Reprogram Your Mind As If You’re Already Successful

Liz Ryan, a contributor at, says:

“The No. 1 thing successful people do is to change their mindset. I’m sorry if that sounds hippy-dippy to you. I come from northern New Jersey, possibly the least “woo-woo” place on earth. People who believe in themselves are more successful than people who don’t, period.”

I love how she talks about Jersey being the least “woo-woo” place on earth!

Suppose you’re ready to rapidly release limiting beliefs, behaviors, and habits. In that case, I recommend you work with someone highly trained in hypnotherapy for business success, NLP, and other evidence-based change methods.

While every method is different, there are three steps to reprogramming your mind.

  1. Relax Into Your Receptive Brain State: To reprogram your mind, you must take your brain to Alpha or Theta brain wave levels. This is the level where you can ‘speak’ directly with the subconscious.

Alpha-level brainwaves are experienced first thing in the morning as you first awaken and last thing at night just before you go to sleep. In the Alpha level, you are awake (conscious) and aware of your surroundings, but your subconscious is fully alert and most responsive to learning and accepting new ideas.

You can achieve the Alpha level by practicing relaxation techniques before you do steps 2 &3.

  1. Visualize Your Success: Picture your goal as an image or movie with you ‘in the moment.’ It must be in the present, so you must live it as if it’s already happening/happened. Use all of your senses to make it as natural as possible.

Tell a story, and if you can add some humor, even better. Your subconscious loves stories, and it loves humor. By fully engaging your senses, it becomes more real. Make the scenes bright and colorful.

Hear the sounds. Feel the emotions. Touch and taste things.

When visualizing, always answer these questions:

What can you see?

What can you hear?

What can you feel? (Physical touch as well as emotions.)

What can you smell?

What can you taste?

  1. Affirm Your Leadership Success Out Loud: While visualizing yourself living your goal, it is important to affirm this. To make them even more powerful and effective, you can write them down and display them wherever you see them regularly throughout your day. You can also record yourself saying them out loud and listen to them first thing in the morning and last thing at night.

Affirmations must be:

  • In the present tense.
  • Said with positive conviction. (You must believe in what you are saying.)
  • Include emotion.

For example, I am giving a presentation to my department and superiors. I am standing at the front of the room. I feel confident and calm. I am speaking with conviction. I know my topic. My presentation is exciting and fun to give. The audience is listening intently. They are smiling and nodding their heads as I speak. My voice is confident and easy to hear, even at the back of the room. I am standing tall, wearing my favorite navy suit. I feel smart. My team has just hit its marks 3-months in a row, and they’re asking ME how we did it! (Eddie’s success story)

You can use these three steps to reprogram your mind. Done daily and without disruptions, you’ll see results over 6-12 months.

If you’re ready to accelerate learning and execute your next leadership level, message me today.

There will be no better time to act than when you know you’re made for more.

It’s time you were introduced to the right tools.

To The Success You Deserve,

Darlene Karpaski

Creator of the Influence to Income & Limitless Life Mastery Blueprints

Founder & CEO of Your Mission to Money